看到美女和帅哥，大多数人都有想去搭讪的冲动。一般的搭讪用语都是说对方看上去眼熟，又或者称赞对方。今天给大家分享了如何用英语口语和陌生人搭讪，赶紧来看看吧!
如何用英语口语和陌生人搭讪
1. Where's your favorite place to hang out in town? Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening. And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.
镇上最喜欢的去处?这又是一个有趣而不私人的开场问题。接着就可以讨论最喜欢的餐厅，酒吧和商店。
2. I like your shirt! Where did you get it? A genuine compliment makes anyone smile。
我很喜欢你的衬衫，在哪买的?真诚的称赞能换来对方的笑脸。
3. I can't place this song — do you know it? Hey, even if you know the tune, asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start。
我想不起来这首歌叫什么了——你知道吗? 哪怕你知道答案，问对方这个问题能轻松的让你们开始攀谈。
4. How long have you been at your job? Even at a corporate event, asking others about their job titles, roles, and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice。
你在现在的工作岗位上做了几年?即使在公司活动上，询问关于职位和工作时间也是很好的开场白。
5. Tell me about something that made you laugh this week. Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile。
告诉我这星期让你开心的事情吧。人人都爱笑!讨论点有趣的事能让人开怀一笑。
6. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? A bit more direct, but asking a specific question that requires thought can really make an impression。
如果你有一百万美元，你会做什么?这问题有点直接，不过这种需要思考的问题通常能给人留下印象。
7. How are you today? Sure, this is a no-brainer question, but it gets people talking。
今天怎么样?好吧，这问题有点没水准，但总能让人说点什么。
8. Where is the best place you have ever visited? Taking a vacation is always wonderful. Asking someone new about a favorite destination is always an easy way to start talking。
你去过最赞的地方是哪?假期绝对是个好话题，而问人们最喜欢的地方让谈话很容易就开始。
9. Did you hear about (something trending in the news)? Pick something pretty generic, remembering to stay away from politics and religion, and the conversation will get rolling。
你听说了(当下热点事件)吗?挑一点比较大众的问题，记住不要提起政治和宗教，这样对话就会开始了。
10. So, what's your story? OK, this one is borderline pick-up line, but it's also a direct approach for chatting。
你有什么经历分享?这个开场白不要轻易采用，不过也不失为一个让对方开口的方法。
11. This place is awesome! Have you been here before? Complimenting the venue is a positive way to chat with others.
这地方太棒了!你以前来过这吗?称赞场地也是打开话匣子的好方法。
12.If you could be an animal, what would you be and why? Just don't roar after asking! This question is also a fun and light way to break the ice。
如果你能成为一种动物，你会做什么，为什么?问完问题以后，千万别大笑。这是个有趣又轻松的话题。
13. If you could invite a famous person over for dinner, who would it be? Also an often-used convo starter, this question has lasted the test of time, which makes it a winner anywhere, anytime。
如果你可以邀请一位名人共进晚餐，你会邀请谁?同样是个经典问题，但毕竟经过时间的考验，在任何时间，任何地点都是适用的。
14. What's your favorite holiday? Open and generic, a basic question is an easy way to start mingling。
你最喜欢什么节日?普通的问题最能开始一段对话。
15. What's the craziest thing you've ever eaten? Here's another fun question that gets people talking! And it's a great question to use when you feel awkward joining a group that's already chatting。
你吃过的最不可思议的东西是什么?这又是个让人说话的有趣问题!当别人已经在讨论时，这个问题能帮你化解尴尬。
16. What is one thing you couldn't live without? Wine? Chocolate? Bread? There's no wrong answer to this question, which makes it another winner。
离开了什么你就无法生活?酒?巧克力?面包?这个问题没有固定答案，这也是为什么这是个好问题的原因了。
17. Have you ever won anything? It feels good when you win something, so asking someone about this special moment encourages sharing。
你有赢得过什么奖励吗?能赢得什么总令人开心，所以问问别人的类似经历，这有助于互相分享。
18. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Slightly personal without requiring too much info, asking others about their family is a smart way to make connections。
你有兄弟姐妹吗?有点私人，但又不会透露太多信息。询问对方的家庭能快速的和他建立起联系。
19. Have you ever met anyone famous? A brush with a famous person is always a thrill, making talking about it with a stranger a fun icebreaker。
你有碰到过名人吗? 和名人擦身而过总令人兴奋，和陌生人讨论这个话题再适合不过。
20. Do you prefer texting, calling, or emailing? Emailing! This is actually a great question to ask someone after you have made a connection. Follow up by asking for your new friend's phone number or email address。
你是倾向于发短信，打电话，还是发邮件呢?邮件!如果你和对方熟悉起来的话，这绝对是个好问题。之后你就可以问问新朋友的电话号码和邮箱了。
如何用英语口语搭讪与反搭讪
1、搭讪：似曾相识：拉近和对方的距离。
You look like someone I know.
你跟我一个朋友长得好像。
Haven't we met before?
我们之前见过吧?
反搭讪：完全不在状态，没心思理你。
Get out of here!
滚远一点。(这个一定惹恼了的。)
Leave me alone!
离我远一点!(同上，看不出我现在很烦啊!)
2、搭讪：借题发挥：只要有心，总是有借口。
That's a great haircut.
你的发型很棒。
You have a great smile.
你的笑容很美。
反搭讪：直截了当，不给你机会。
I’m not available.
我已经名花有主了。(很委婉、很明确)
I am waiting for my boyfriend (girlfriend).
我正在等我男朋友(女朋友)。(请不要误会好吗?)
3、搭讪：略施小惠 ：说这话可是有目的。
Can I buy you a drink?
我可以请你喝一杯吗?
(To the bartender) I'll have what the handsome gentleman (beautiful lady) is having.
(对酒保说)我要跟这位帅哥(美女)点一样的东西。
反搭讪：回击稳准狠。
I’ve quit my baby-sitting job.
我已经不当保姆了。(你还太嫩。)
Not if you were the last man (woman) on earth.
除非你是世界上最后一个男(女)人。(老兄先照照镜子吧!)
4、搭讪：趁虚而入：此句可以列入防狼手册，单身MM注意了。
Are you here alone?
你一个人在这儿吗?
What's a handsome guy (pretty girl) like you doing here alone?
像你这样的帅哥(美女)怎么会落单?
反搭讪：我不是一个人!
I’m expecting a friend.
我在等朋友。(不是在等你来搭讪。)
Is begging on the street legal here?
此地当街乞讨是合法的吗?(你是不是忘了打扮就出来了?)
5、搭讪：单刀直入：太直接了吧?
What do you say we go somewhere quiet.
我们另外找个安静的地方如何……
反搭讪：彻底断了你的念想。
Not in this lifetime.
这辈子休想。(别不识相啦!)
Only if your name is Brad Pitt (Jennifer Lopez).
除非你是布拉德•彼特/詹妮佛•洛佩兹。(你远不够格。)
跟老外搭讪的英语口语开场白
1. So, what do you do? 你是做什么的?
跟不熟悉的人搭讪的万能问题，如果是被别人问到，可以参考以下答案：
Right now, I’m a student. I’m in my second year of pharmacy school. How about you? What do you do?
I work as a tour guide for a local tour company. I’ve worked there for three years now. How about you?
That’s a good question! I do a little bit of everything: some writing, some photography and some graphic design, too. What do you do?
2. How’s (summer) treating you?暑假过的怎么样?
询问这段时间过的怎么样，回答可参考：
Oh, it’s been really great. No complaints here! And how’s it going for you?
Not bad, can’t complain! And how is your summer going?
It’s treating me pretty well! I’ve gotten a lot out of it so far. And how’s summer going for you?
3. So, what have you been up to lately?最近怎么样?
相当于“How’s it going?”，通常是跟认识、稍微熟悉的人聊天用。回答可参考：
Not much. My last class is on Thursday, so I’m excited about that! What have you been up to?
Let’s see…Well, I started a new job last week, but other than that, everything is pretty much the same. What have you been up to?
Well, have you heard that I moved to a new apartment?
What can I say? Nothing too exciting. Things are good—how about you?
4. Long time, no see! Any updates since we last saw each other?好久不见!有啥新鲜事吗?
回答可参考：
Where to begin? A lot has changed in the past few months. I got a dog, moved apartments and switched jobs!
Nothing too crazy. How about you? Any news?
5. So what do you do when you’re not working?不工作的时候你喜欢做什么呢?
相当于问“What are your hobbies?”回答可参考：
Well, recently I started playing volleyball on the weekends.
Usually, I spend my free time doing activities with my family.
6. Do you follow (Stephen Colbert)?
括号内可换成任何明星、美剧、电影等等任何话题。
回答可参考：
Oh, yeah! I love him/that show. Why?
Sometimes. A little bit here and there. Why?
No–actually, I haven’t heard of him. Who is he?
7. What sort of stuff do you do on the weekends?你周末都做什么呢?
8. So, what’s your take on (the latest movie)?所以你对(这部电影)怎么看?
同样，括号里可以是任何最新的新闻、电影等话题。
9. Are you here with anybody?你是跟别人一起来的吗?
party上搭讪妹子的时候可以先问问这个问题哦。
10. Do you feel like grabbing a bite?想来点吃的吗?
11. Would you be up for a (movie) some time?有空能一起去看个电影吗?
12. Would you mind giving me a hand with this?你能帮我一下忙吗?
