相信很多人，与陌生人开口的第一句话，就是一个无法继续的问题，或者就是一个无法继续的话题。也就是我们所说的，把话聊死了。今天给大家分享了怎样避免用英语口语聊天聊死，赶紧来看看吧!
怎样避免用英语口语聊天聊死
〔01〕
How do you know...?
你怎么知道…的?
How do you know后面可加人名。
比如说，How do you know Charlie?
那么对方就会开始和你的下一段对话，就是表示他怎么认识他的，话题就从中来啦。
〔02〕
What wheels you drive?
你喜欢开什么车?
这个对话的开始非常常见于两个男性之间的谈话，他们也对车都有着爱好。
这样就可以进行下一步的谈论啦。
〔03〕
You look familiar.
你看起来很面熟。
这句话适用在当你看到一个陌生人，但是却感觉跟TA有过交集又想不起来的时候。
但是不管是否曾经认识过，这也是一个作为开启谈话的好句子。
〔04〕
Where do you come from?
你是从哪里来的?
这一句话真的是最为推荐的一个开场白。
因为这会激起一些兴趣，更好地进行下一步谈话。
比如说，对方回答：”I am from Sichuan.”
你就会想到四川的火锅，延伸的回答便是：“ Sichuan hot pot is very delicious!I like it very much.”
〔05〕
What a small world!
世界真小啊!
当你再一次见到这个人的时候，你就可以用这句话来开头。
〔06〕
What are you into?
你喜欢什么?
What … are you into?…可以加一些类别相关的词语。
比如可以加music，food，sport等。
〔07〕
Jingdong or Taobao?
京东还是淘宝买的?
当你对对方的衣服或者某个饰品感兴趣，你想问TA在哪儿买的，就可以这么问啦。
这个也是一个很好的开头语，接下来你们可能会聊相关的话题哦。
〔08〕
Looks like a great thing.
看起来不错。
thing你可以换成drink或者其他你想要赞美的东西。
〔09〕
What are your thoughts on?
你怎么看?
你可以选择最近的热点事件，来问对方你怎么看待这个事情。
会聊天的英语口语表达方式
1. 多问开放式的问题。
Ask open ended questions.
那些问了半天，只能让对方蹦出两个字的问题，就别再问了。想要进一步增进了解，还是聊点儿能让人滔滔不绝的话题吧!毕竟聊得多了才更有可能进一步交往嘛~
It is difficult to connect with someone if you ask them questions that can be answered in two words. There is no chance for a connection to develop. Instead of asking, “Where do you live?” trying asking “What do you think of your neighborhood?” Instead of “where did you get that shirt?” try “What do you think of the new store in the mall?” The longer you talk, the more chance there is for a connection to grow.
2. 找找你们的共同点。
Find things in common.
好朋友聊得来，首先要有共同话题。如果对方说自己在银行实习，你可以提提你在金融圈的亲朋好友。如果对方爱看真人秀，那就从你喜欢的节目聊起吧!
If your potential new friend interned at Credit Suisse, discuss that your brother works in finance. If she is all about reality TV, tell her which shows you’re into. Friendship is built on commonalities.
3. 多聊点感受。
Use emotion words.
讲话内容太客观实则枯燥乏味。如果你想让对方感兴趣，那就多聊点你的感受吧!比如出门旅行这种事，与其唠叨那些细碎的经过，倒不如跟大家分享你差点找不到北的囧事儿，和如何打发漫长旅途的郁闷。
Sticking to the facts makes a conversation dry and boring. You want to capture your new acquaintance’s interest by using emotion words so they can connect with you on a genuine level. Instead of going into detail about where you stayed on your trip to London, talk about how anxious you felt when you almost missed your connection. Instead of describing how long your commute is, discuss how much you dread that hour of your day.
4. 对方让你想起了谁?
Think of who this person reminds you of.
不管是身边的亲朋好友，还是电视里的名人明星，如果你发现对面这个人和其中哪位有些相似，就大胆说出来吧!大部分人还是会认为这是认可和称赞哒~
If this person reminds you of a friend, someone on TV, or a public figure, tell them, as long as it isn’t insulting, of course. People love to hear who others think they look or act like. It is flattering that someone thinks about you enough to compare you to someone that they know and like.
5. 讲话要有正能量。
Say positive things.
抱怨和发牢骚就免了吧!人家还没怎么跟你接触，估计就快受不了了。想想看也能知道，谁会跟平时就爱大惊小怪和满满负能量的人做盆友呢?
Don’t complain or whine about your life or discuss how upset you are by friend or work drama. This makes a potential friend wary of getting too close. It can seem like you’re always creating drama and negative energy, which is a turn off.
6. 别做大嘴巴!
Don’t gossip.
爱跟别人说闲话的人，旁人都不敢跟他们走太近。谁知道你一扭脸，又会说人家什么呢?所以，聊天的时候最好让人家知道你不是大嘴巴，没事儿别老把其他人扯进话题里。
Many people will gossip right back, but then won’t be interested in becoming a closer friend to you. In the back of their mind, they will keep wondering what you’re going to say about them when their back is turned. Try to stay positive and give people the benefit of the doubt when you talk about them, or better, just talk about the two of you without dragging others, who aren’t even there, into the conversation.
7. 别说自己的坏话。
Don’t self-deprecate.
在人前数落自己的不是，会让旁人十分尴尬。这让人家该怎么回应你呢?毕竟不是所有人都能像心理医生那样当你的垃圾桶。
It can make people feel awkward to be around individuals who talk badly about themselves, complaining about their various terrible qualities. They feel like they have to reassure you, and nobody wants to be someone’s therapist.
8. 称赞你俩的好友。
Praise mutual friends.
如果你们都和同一个人是好朋友，那就一起说说他的好话吧!这样做不仅能提升你们对彼此的好感，还为今后大家一起玩耍创造了机会。
If you know someone in common, talk nicely about them. This will increase the chances that this new acquaintance thinks well of you, and it also makes it likely that the three of you can hang out sometime.
9. 聊聊今后可以一起参加的活动。
Discuss potential future activities.
如果新认识的小伙伴提到了一个你很感兴趣的活动，下次有类似的活动别忘了叫上他们。千万不要太一本正经地拿出手机查你的档期，你只需立刻表现出热情就好了。
If your new acquaintance mentions an activity that you also enjoy, invite them to join you in the future. Not in a creepy way where you bring out your phone and start looking at the calendar, but just say that you’d love to have them come along surfing the next time you go to the beach, or whatever the case may be.
10. 要个联系方式不必害臊。
Don’t be shy about asking to connect.
想要和人家成为好朋友，就别太矜持了。社交媒体这么多，加个微博微信神马的没什么大不了。如果对方能爽快地接受邀请加你做好友，那说明他对你的印象也还不错。
Plant the seed that you want to be closer friends by saying something like, “I’ll definitely have to friend you on Facebook.” This is also a good way to assess whether this person is also interested in being friends. If they seem excited and later immediately accept your friend request, it’s likely that a friendship may be developing.
怎样用英语口语和外国人聊天
首先，电影、餐厅、公众事件、假期和电视节目(films, restaurants, public events, vacations and TV shows) 这几个都是西方人乐于聊的东西，用它们作为聊天话题绝对没错，不用担心触到雷区~~此外，传说中外国人很喜欢谈论的天气也是可以拿来当话题的，不过有些人会觉得有点无聊就是了。
其次大家要了解，西方人还蛮喜欢给朋友建议的，所以如果你拿某件事儿来问他们，他们会很乐意给你答案，比方说：
Do you know if anything good is playing at the cinema right now?
你知道影院里现在有上映什么好电影吗?(“电影院”英国人说cinema，美国人则说movie theater)
I really want to find a good Italian restaurant; any suggestions?
我很想找到一家好的意大利餐馆，你有什么推荐吗?
I saw an advertisement on TV last night for that new show, Prison Break. Have you seen it? 昨晚我在电视里看到那部新剧《越狱》的广告，你看到了吗?
最后，要想把谈话继续下去，最好的办法就是多问问题啦!
比如你问，"Do you know any good Italian restaurants?"(你知道什么吃意大利菜的好地方吗?)对方却回答，"No, sorry—I don't really like Italian food."(对不起我不知道，其实我不太喜欢吃意大利菜……)那你可以接着问，"Oh, ok. What kind of food do you usually go out for then?"(哦~~那你一般出去吃哪种菜呢?)
