搭讪,包括与一个陌生人的眼神交流、肢体动作交流等,但大部分情况指的是你主动和一个陌生人说话。下面就来说说英语口语搭讪攻略，大家千万别错过。
英语口语搭讪攻略
Perhaps one of the hardest parts of getting to know somebody is actually finding a way to talk talk to them.
也许结识某人的最困难的部分实际上是找到同他们交谈的方法。
1. "Sorry, but do I know you from somewhere? You look so familiar…"
“抱歉，但是我之前见过你吗?你看起来好眼熟...”
This is a great excuse to start a conversation with somebody. Just pretend that you recognise them from somewhere and before you know, it youre in a conversation.
这是同别人开始交谈的很好的借口。只是假装你在认识某人之前认出他/她，这就是你在和他/她谈话。
2. "Sorry, Im a bit lost, do you know where ... is?"
“抱歉，我有点迷路，你知道‘...’在哪吗?”
Much like the first one on the list, this one is all about lying in order to get your foot in the door. OK so lying sounds a little bad… How about embellishing the truth.
跟第一条那个很像，这种撒谎是为了让你有机会接近他。好了，如果‘撒谎’听起来有点不好;那么为创造机会‘添加枝叶’呢。
3. "Excuse me, where did you get your dress (shirt/blouse etc), its really nice and I need to get a present for my sister/brother."
“打扰一下，你这衣服(衬衫)在哪里买的呢，真好看，我也想买的送我妹妹/哥哥。”
So this one requires a good deal of confidence. If you see someone you like and need a way to get talking to them, simply approach them and tell them you want to know where they bought an item of their clothing, because you think it will suit a friend or family member. This will also flatter them and open up some dialogue.
这个需要拥有强烈的自信。如果你看到一个你喜欢的人，并且想要同他们聊天，那么接近他们，并且告诉他们你想要知道他们在哪里买的这种类型的衣服，因为你认为它适合一个朋友或家人。这个会奉承他们，也会开启很多对话。
4. "Oh wow! Its you! I loved you in that film where you were fighting robots… Oh, it wasnt you?"
“哇!是你诶!我喜欢你同机器人战斗的那个电影里面的角色!喔，不是你吗?”
So these are pretty much all lies, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. Its getting harder and harder to meet new people in the real world now with social networking sites so you have to be a little creative. If you pretend that the person you are trying to talk to reminds you of a movie star then they will be flattered and it could start a pretty interesting conversation.
这个完全就是撒谎，但是，嘿，你可以做你想做的事了。在大量社交网站存在的情况下，现实生活中遇见陌生人的难度越来越大，所以你必须变得稍微活跃些。如果你假装那个你试图攀谈的人让你想起了某个电影明星，那么他们被奉承了，这个就可以帮助你开始一段很有意思的谈话。
Once you have the conversation started its really up to you to keep it going. My advice would be to ask a lot of questions about them so that you seem interested, but not so much as to scare them away or seem desperate. Its a delicate balance.
一旦你开始会话后，如何交谈下去就取决于你自己了。我的建议是多问些关于他们的问题，这样看上去你是有兴趣交谈的，但是不要不顾一切地问太多而把别人吓跑了。
Once you get to know them a little
一旦你有些了解他们了
So youve managed to break the ice, maybe youve gotten their number or have arranged to meet up sometime, where do you go from here?
那么你成功‘打破沉默’了，也许你要到他们的电话号码或者安排某一时候一起约会。接下来要做什么?
1. "You look really nice today."
“你今天看起来真漂亮。”
Simple, classic and always effective. This one makes the person feel good about themselves, and if you can make them feel good about themselves, then youre on the right path.
简单，经典，并且总是有效果。这句话会让那个人对自己感觉很好，如果你让他们对自己的感觉很好，那么你就用对方法了。
2. "I have a hard time meeting people because Im so busy with work."
“我很难见到别人，因为我工作太忙没时间。”
This will tell them that you are a hard worker, which is generally seen as a good quality by most people (but not by all! Avoid this line if you are trying to impress a punk rocker or an anarchist).
这句话会告诉他们你是一个努力工作的人，这也是大部分人都认同的好品质(但不是所有人!如果你试图给一个朋克摇滚歌手或是一名无政府主义者留下好印象，忽略这一行)。
3. "Im single because Im waiting for the right person."
“我是单身因为我在等待正确的人。”
This will show them that you dont fool around with the first person who comes into your life, and it might make them want to be the right person for you.
这个会向他们表明你不会玩弄第一个进入你生活的人，这个可能会让他们想要成为‘正确的人’。
4. I feel a little silly saying this is in English so ...
“我感觉用英语(课程)说这个会显得有点傻，所以‘........’”
不要低估你的母语的吸引力。以英语为母语的人尤其觉得外语和口音都非常具有吸引力，并且很喜欢听。如果你告诉他们你有一些事情要告诉他们，但是感觉用英语说会很傻，那么就用你自己的母语说吧，这种神秘感足以使他们痴迷发狂。
实用的搭讪英语口语
1.Where did you grow up? This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease。
你是在哪长大的?这是非常好的一句开场白，可以让对方谈论起过去，这样对话双方会比较轻松。
2. Do you have any pets? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start。
你养宠物吗?人们都喜欢宠物，问起他们的宠物能让对话进行下去。即使对方没有宠物，这也不失为一个好的开场白。
3. What's your favorite book? Instead of asking what people are reading right now, which can be a bit too intimate, asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection。
你最喜欢的书是哪一本? 如果直接询问对方正在阅读的书，显得太过亲密。而问他们喜欢的书利于在彼此之间建立联系。
4. What's the first thing you do after work? Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed。
下班后做的第一件事是什么?是踢掉鞋子?去健身?问人们如何放松能让他们感到愉快。
5. What's your dream job? Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started。
你理想的职业是什么?即使是在公司聚会上，问理想职业也是开始对话的一种有效方式。
6. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone。
如果你可以住在世界上任何一个地方，你会住在哪?不是每个人都有机会到处旅行，这个问题能让大家都开心起来。
7. What countries have you traveled to? Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages someone to share memories。
你去过哪些国家?即使你没有出去旅游过，问问别人可以让他们分享回忆。
8. Do you like to cook? Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing。
你喜欢烹饪吗?问问对方最喜欢的菜肴，烹饪方面的经历总能引起有趣的话题。
9. What's your favorite food? Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime。
你最喜欢的食物是什么?民以食为天，这个问题百试不灵。
10. What's your favorite drink? A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering。
你最喜欢的饮料是什么? 绝妙的常规问题。任何聚会上问这个问题总不会错。
11. Do you have a favorite local restaurant? This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.
你有最喜欢的餐厅吗?这个问题能让人们谈论起日常休闲的地方，使大家放松。
12. What's your favorite movie? You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie. Follow it up with specific questions, such as scene stealers and actors in the flick。
你最喜欢哪部电影?人们对电影的喜好能反映个人特点。接着问些具体的问题，比如谁最抢戏，片中的演员等等。
13. What movie are you dying to see? Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases。
哪一部电影你非看不可?这个问题可以让所有人都加入到对新影片的讨论中。
14. What are you watching on TV? This is another question that won't offend and is open-ended, encouraging even the supershy to start chatting。
你都看些什么电视节目?这又是一个比较中性的问题，答案很开放，让那些性格内向的人也能加入讨论。
15. What's the last concert you went to? Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation. And it's a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to。
你最近去的音乐会是那一场?这个话题不仅适合两个人谈论，作为小组讨论的话题也完全没问题，还能让你知道新朋友的音乐偏好。
16. What's the craziest thing you've ever done? For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation。
你做过的最疯狂的事是什么?如果你想让人印象深刻的话，这是一个能够吸引注意而且制造乐趣的话题。
17. If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item, what would it be? Yes, a classic one-liner, but this convo starter always gets a good answer。
如果你被困在沙漠中但只能带一样东西，你会带什么?没错，就是这个经典的问题，但通常你会得到一个好回答。
18. What's your favorite season? Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation。
你最喜欢的季节是哪一个? 这个问题验证了那句“如果不知道说什么，问天气总是没错的。”这之后再问现在的天气状况，对话就开始啦。
19. Do you speak any other languages? Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded。
你会说其他语言吗?问一些比较私人的话题，可以让对方分享一些信息但又不会过度防备。
20. Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend? Make chatting easy by asking about future plans — without setting off a stalker vibe. Keep it light and share your plans too。
这个周末有什么计划?关于未来打算的问题让对话变得轻松，但不要刨根问底，给人居心叵测的感觉。尽量保证话题轻松，同时也分享你的计划。
如何用英语口语与别人搭讪
寻找同感
1. Freshmen are so annoying, aren’t they?
大一新生可真闹心，不是吗?
2. This class is terrible, wouldn’t you agree?
这课太没劲了，你说呢?
3. What do you think of our professor?
你觉得咱们这个教授咋样?
称赞别人的品味
1. Nice necklace you got there, where did you get it?
项链真不错，哪儿买的?
2. Cool phone you got there. Is that the new model?
手机很酷啊，是新款吗?
3. Those shoes are unique… Why did you pick them?
那双鞋太特别了…… 你是怎么选的?
拼暖心
1. Woo, you look miserable. Need somebody to talk to?
哇，你看上去很不开心。需要找人聊聊吗?
2. You look stressed. How can I help?
你看上去很紧张。我能帮上忙吗?
问别人的喜好
1. Are you a tea person or a coffee fanatic?
你平时是喜欢喝茶还是爱喝咖啡?
2. Do you like running? You look like a runner.
你喜欢跑步吗?你看着像是爱跑步的人。
3. What apps do you use most on your smartphone?
你最喜欢用哪款app?
跟别人套近乎
1. Hey, I think we’re both friends with Tom.
嗨，咱俩跟汤姆都是朋友吧。
2. Didn’t I see you at that party last night?
昨晚上派对我是不是见过你?
3. Aren’t we in the same class together?
咱俩不是一个班的吗?
